
“Really, really? You think everyone is creative?” I hear that question often, usually followed by a story about a school art project gone wrong. Someone drew a lopsided dog, a classmate laughed, and decades later they still say, “I’m not artistic.” If that sounds familiar, I understand why you might be skeptical. But yes, I believe everyone is creative in some way or another. Creativity is not a prize awarded to people who can paint a perfect sunset. It is a way of noticing, trying, choosing, and expressing what matters to you. If you would like a gentle place to begin, my free e-book, Four Ways to Nurture Your Creative Spirit, offers simple ways to invite more calm and creativity into your day.
First, Let’s Make Creativity Bigger Than Art Class
When I say everyone is creative, I am not secretly suggesting that everyone should become a professional artist. I mean creativity shows up in ordinary life. It is there when you rearrange flowers in a jar, invent a meal from what is left in the refrigerator, or find a new way to comfort someone you love. It appears when you tell a story, solve a problem, choose colors for a room, or make a plan after life changes unexpectedly.
Those things may not hang in a gallery, but they involve imagination and choice. They ask, “What could I try?” That question is at the heart of creative living. Art simply gives us another place to ask it, with the added pleasure of colorful supplies and the occasional paintbrush that has mysteriously vanished.
“I’m Not Good at Art” Is Not the Same as “I’m Not Creative”
Many women learned early that art was something to be graded. If your drawing did not look like the example, you might have decided you lacked talent. That conclusion can stick around for years, even when the assignment—and the teacher’s red pen—are long gone.
But making art does not require you to reproduce a photograph or impress anyone. You can make lines because moving your hand feels good. You can choose blue because you love blue. You can paint an entire page yellow because, today, yellow seems like the right answer. Who is going to stop you? It’s just paper and paint.
Skill can grow with practice if you want it to. Yet skill is not the price of admission. Curiosity is enough to get started, and no art experience needed means exactly that. You do not have to become “good” before you are allowed to enjoy making something.
Creativity Can Help Us Make Room for What We Feel
Life brings transitions we choose and transitions we most certainly did not order. Retirement, caregiving, grief, changing health, new relationships, and shifting identities can leave us searching for steady ground. In those moments, words may come slowly. A color, shape, or repeated pattern can offer another way to express what is happening inside.
I often say, “Creativity heals.” I do not mean that art erases pain or replaces medical or mental health care. I mean that a creative practice can offer comfort, connection, and a little breathing room while we move through hard things. Healing is rarely a neat, straight line. Neither is a page of doodles, and perhaps that is part of their charm.
Sometimes you may make art about a feeling. Other times, you may simply enjoy the quiet of choosing a color. Both are worthwhile. You do not owe anyone an explanation of what your picture “means.”
The Smallest Creative Choices Count
If a blank page feels intimidating, start smaller than small. Pick up a pencil and make three circles. Add a line to each one. Perhaps they become flowers, faces, or three circles with lines. All three outcomes count.
You might also try a tiny creativity break during an ordinary day:
- Choose one color that matches your mood and fill a small corner of a page with it.
- Draw the view from your window using only simple shapes.
- Collect three leaves and arrange them in different ways.
- Make a border of dots while you wait for the kettle to boil.
None of these activities requires fancy materials or a free afternoon. Five minutes is enough to remind yourself that you can begin. You are not preparing for an exhibition. You are giving your curious mind somewhere to play.
Art Can Be a Conversation, Not a Performance
One reason I love creative communities is that they help us see past the idea of a “right” result. Put the same supplies in front of ten people and you will see ten different approaches. Someone will work slowly and carefully. Someone else will cover the page in wild orange swirls. Both people belong at the table.
Making art alongside others can also ease the loneliness that sometimes comes with change. You can share an idea, admire someone else’s surprising use of green, or laugh together when the glue behaves like it has a personal grudge. Connection does not depend on producing a masterpiece.
Online or in person, a welcoming art space can help you feel comfortable trying something new. It can remind you that other people feel unsure, too—and that uncertainty does not have to keep any of us from participating.
Your Creative Voice Does Not Have an Age Limit
Maybe you are returning to art after fifty years away. Maybe you have never thought of yourself as an artist. Perhaps you are wondering whether it is too late to find out what you enjoy. It is not. Your life experience gives you a rich collection of memories, questions, favorite colors, and stories to draw from.
There is no deadline for making your first collage or learning a new pattern. You are allowed to be a beginner at any age. In fact, beginning can be wonderfully freeing: you get to experiment without pretending you already know how everything works.
You may discover that you like careful, repeating lines. You may prefer loose marks and messy hands. You may find that your favorite part is simply sitting down for a few minutes and hearing yourself think. Your creative voice does not have to sound like anyone else’s.
What If You Still Don’t Believe Me?
That is all right. I am not asking you to declare yourself an artist before lunch. Instead, try gathering a little evidence from your own life. Think of a time you found a thoughtful solution, made something feel more welcoming, or approached a problem in your own way. Notice the choices you made. That was creativity at work, even if nobody handed you a paintbrush.
Then try one small art experiment without judging the result. Set a timer for ten minutes. Make marks on a page, arrange found objects, or play with a color you love. When the timer ends, ask yourself, “What did I notice?” rather than “Is it good?” You might notice that you enjoyed the process, that your shoulders relaxed, or that you want to try again tomorrow. You might also notice that you dislike purple. Useful information!
Confidence often grows through moments like these. Not from getting everything right, but from learning that you can explore, make a choice, and keep going.
Begin Where You Are
So, really, really: yes. I believe everyone is creative in some way or another, including you. Your creativity may be quiet or bold, carefully planned or delightfully messy. It can support healing by giving you a little room to pause, express yourself, and reconnect with what brings you joy. You do not need to prove anything to earn that experience.
If you would like a few easy ideas to try today, get your free copy of Four Ways to Nurture Your Creative Spirit. Choose one practice that appeals to you and see how it feels. A small beginning is still a beginning.
When you are ready to explore art with others, I would love to welcome you into a creative course. Come as you are, bring your curiosity, and remember: no art experience needed.
















Is the sentence that really stuck out to me. Creativity has been my career, and sadly, because of that, I am very picky about how I like to be creative! Lol Since one version feels like 'work'.
Anywho, I'm always encouraging my clients to learn their own version of creativity. The career version vs the fun version always starts the same way: exploring curiosity and trying random things. There are no bad ideas! We will pick what's the best fit is all.